Design your amazing life in 2018

Happy Happy 2018 to you all! 

 

2017 has now passed and as we step into a new year, it is time to decide what energy and vibration we wish to bring through with us.

How exciting.  This is your amazing life!  Design it!

It was suggested by a friend and mentor of mine, Robbi Zeck, that a lovely way to choose this vibration as a theme for the year is through 1 word.  This 1 intentional word becomes the vibration you check in with on a day to day basis.  I loved this idea and thought I would share it with you.  Thank you Robbi.

My word for this year is commitment.

My commitment to myself is to always be guided by my soul, my heart and my passion.  Living each day from my heart and checking in with myself to ensure that my commitment is being honoured is what I dedicate this year to.  When I am truly committed to my heart and soul, fear takes a back seat and courage steps up.  When I commit to living my fearless, courageous, empowered life and I shine my light brightly, I teach and encourage my family, my friends and each of you to do the same.

My mantra is

“I commit to making a difference to my life and another’s life, every day of my life, then my life is complete”. 

This mantra is one that has been dear to my heart for as long as I can remember.  I have decided to fine tune it this year.  I have added “my life” in there as well “another’s”.  As I commit to personal growth and balance, I have a greater abundance of knowledge and energy to share with others.  If my cup is overflowing, then I can give freely rather than from depletion.  Then my mantra can be achieved with grace and abundance.  I am so excited!!

So now is the time for you to decide your word, design your amazing life.

You choose!

Make your choices from the still point within.

Shine your amazing light brightly and abundantly for the world to see.

Make this year, your year.

My beautiful friend Lyn shared this wonderful short story with me over the new year. I just love the author of this story Elizabeth Gilbert.  This story made me cry with hope and joy.  It is a tale of a man who made a difference to many with one random act of kindness.  This one act changed the lives of the people it directly touched but also filtered through to possibly thousands of others.

Never underestimate the power of kindness.

Please enjoy this story, design your word for 2018 and shine your beautiful, courageous light for all the world to see.

You are amazing!

Positive psychology

When the world feels cold and dark and lonely, take heart: Anybody can make their corner of it brighter.

 

By Elizabeth Gilbert

Some years ago, I was stuck on a crosstown bus in New York City during rush hour. Traffic was barely moving. The bus was filled with cold, tired people who were deeply irritated—with one another; with the rainy, sleety weather; with the world itself. Two men barked at each other about a shove that might or might not have been intentional. A pregnant woman got on, and nobody offered her a seat. Rage was in the air; no mercy would be found here.

But as the bus approached Seventh Avenue, the driver got on the intercom. “Folks,” he said, “I know you’ve had a rough day and you’re frustrated. I can’t do anything about the weather or traffic, but here’s what I can do. As each one of you gets off the bus, I will reach out my hand to you. As you walk by, drop your troubles into the palm of my hand, okay? Don’t take your problems home to your families tonight—just leave ’em with me. My route goes right by the Hudson River, and when I drive by there later, I’ll open the window and throw your troubles in the water. Sound good?”

It was as if a spell had lifted. Everyone burst out laughing. Faces gleamed with surprised delight. People who’d been pretending for the past hour not to notice each other’s existence were suddenly grinning at each other like, is this guy serious?

Oh, he was serious.

At the next stop—just as promised—the driver reached out his hand, palm up, and waited. One by one, all the exiting commuters placed their hand just above his and mimed the gesture of dropping something into his palm. Some people laughed as they did this, some teared up—but everyone did it. The driver repeated the same lovely ritual at the next stop, too. And the next. All the way to the river.

We live in a hard world, my friends. Sometimes it’s extra difficult to be a human being. Sometimes you have a bad day. Sometimes you have a bad day that lasts for several years. You struggle and fail. You lose jobs, money, friends, faith, and love. You witness horrible events unfolding in the news, and you become fearful and withdrawn. There are times when everything seems cloaked in darkness. You long for the light but don’t know where to find it.

But what if you are the light? What if you’re the very agent of illumination that a dark situation begs for?

That’s what this bus driver taught me—that anyone can be the light, at any moment. This guy wasn’t some big power player. He wasn’t a spiritual leader. He wasn’t some media-savvy “influencer.” He was a bus driver—one of society’s most invisible workers. But he possessed real power, and he used it beautifully for our benefit.

When life feels especially grim, or when I feel particularly powerless in the face of the world’s troubles, I think of this man and ask myself, What can I do, right now, to be the light? Of course, I can’t personally end all wars, or solve global warming, or transform vexing people into entirely different creatures. I definitely can’t control traffic. But I do have some influence on everyone I brush up against, even if we never speak or learn each other’s name. How we behave matters because within human society everything is contagious—sadness and anger, yes, but also patience and generosity. Which means we all have more influence than we realize.

No matter who you are, or where you are, or how mundane or tough your situation may seem, I believe you can illuminate your world. In fact, I believe this is the only way the world will ever be illuminated—one bright act of grace at a time, all the way to the river.

Elizabeth Gilbert is the author of ‘Eat, Pray, Love’ and most recently, Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear (Riverhead).

Love and Blessings,

Mandy xo